be a nice guest
I have lived in three other countries besides the US - Brazil, Switzerland and Germany. Each time, I entered the country legally and I learned the language of the hosts. I also did what I could to learn the culture, what was socially acceptable, and what wasn't. I spoke favorably of my host country even though in one country I was robbed and had difficulties recovering from the incident. I never overstayed my welcome and I returned to the US enriched from each experience.I was on more than one occasion engaged in political discussion by locals who learned I was American. Each time the discussion remained respectful and I never went on the offense. Even when gathered together with other Americans, I generally refrained form speaking English. On the few occasions that I remember English being spoken in the presence of a native, the speaker was always reprimanded for their rudeness and we quickly apologized and returned to speaking the local language.
I contrast this with the growing population of illegal immigrants, particularly from Mexico. They enter the country illegally and too many violate common courtesies you know they would expect of an American in their own homeland. And to top it all, they have the audacity to challenge our decency, calling us racists, if we make note of their inconsiderate behavior or take measures to enforce basic laws common in virtually any country around the world. I say, let them.
We need to start enforcing our laws and paying these rabble rousers no heed. They are more than welcome if they come through our front door, but if they insist on sneaking into our house, we should kick them out like the sneak thieves they are. And while they are here, they should observe all the niceties and courtesies that most legal immigrants are more than happy to observe. Learn the language. Respect the customs. Obey the laws. Don't isolate yourselves. This advice goes for Americans abroad as much as it goes to immigrants in this country. It's real easy - be a nice guest. If you're planning on staying - be a nice American. And welcome.
posted by bylaw @ 9:41 PM
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